A very good friend of mine is once again taking part in the Avon Walk for Breast Cancer. I want to help because this is a disease that has touched people I love, including my mother. My friend, Ralph, has earned thousands of dollars over the last six years he's participated in the Walk and I'd love to help him earn thousands more. I've re-posted below, with permission, his letter explaining why finding a cure in our lifetime is important to him. Please take a couple minutes to read it and help out as you can. If you don't know anyone else doing the Walk please consider donating to Ralph. I know times are tight for a lot of people so if you can't afford to donate please help boost the signal even more by sharing Ralph's message with those you know. Thank you.
Dear Becky,
Happy New Year!
Yes, I'm a few weeks behind the times, but it's been a busy time. Winter has set in and it shows no immediate signs of letting go. I hope that everyone receiving this email is healthy and warm in this new decade. As we in the DC area stare at the snow that is still on the ground from Snowpocalypse, we dreamily turn our minds to plans of enjoying the time we hope to spend with family and friends with picnics, beach trips, and other outings after Old Man Winter finally lets go.
Personally and unfortunately, this time of year is also about remembering those who can no longer join my road-trips and adventures. I'll be taking more than a moment or two this warming season to rejoice in the memory of dear friends who lost their fights against breast cancer. Anyone who's known me for any length of time knows that I hold a particular loathing for this particular disease... this disease which has robbed me of several friends throughout the years and which will very likely claim another before the end of 2010. Every year in the USA, someone else is diagnosed with breast cancer EVERY THREE MINUTES. That's too much. I consider myself fortunate to have not lost anyone to breast cancer during 2009. However, I know that this fortune hasn't shone on everyone.
I have a fantasy. I've talked about it before, and I'll talk about it over and over until it becomes a reality. I want to, within my lifetime (not my childrens' lifetimes, but my very own), be able to raise a glass not only to the memory of lost friends, but also to the memory of the wonderful day when breast cancer joined the ranks of polio and smallpox and measles. I'd want to take that horrible list of diseases that were once considered to be death sentences with no possibility for parole -- but that now have simple vaccines and/or cures -- and add to it by at least one. I want to have my grandchildren (still many years in the future!) ask me "but why didn't they just get the shot for it?" and never have to attend a funeral for their loved ones who died from this awful disease. I want to look back on the day when a cure was announced and raise the toast "never more" and know it to be true.
In order to make these dreams a reality, more research needs to be done. In order to get more research, scientists need more funding. They need millions upon millions of dollars to find a cure. And that's where you come in, dear friends. That's where you can help. While it would be very cool to win the lottery and toss in a few million myself, that's unlikely to happen. It's also unlikely for me to record a hit song for me to donate the proceeds. I can't do it alone, and neither can you.
I will do what I have done for the past six years. I will continue to participate in the Avon Walk for Breast Cancer. I will spend my evenings and weekends getting myself prepared for this event. I will also ask you for your support.
I know that times are tight. I know that some of you are in more dire situations than I went through last fall with the loss of my job. I know that money is short. But I ask anyhow. I ask because, though times are tight for many, they are not tight for all. I ask that each of you look into yourself and figure out if you can stand to lose another loved one. If you can't, then look into your wallet and see if you can help. Please try to help. Don't help for me or for my dead friends, help for all of your loved ones who are healthy today and who you want to keep that way. Help them stay that way. Don't let another year go by and wonder what could have been done... at the end of this first year of a new decade, know in your heart that you did what you could.
Donation link: http://awbc.lhhf.org/
Historical link: http://avonlj.lhhf.org/
(Note: both links are redirects to other sites whose URLs are a lot more convoluted than I want to include in an email.)
Thank you.
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Ralph/Sas
Dear Becky,
Happy New Year!
Yes, I'm a few weeks behind the times, but it's been a busy time. Winter has set in and it shows no immediate signs of letting go. I hope that everyone receiving this email is healthy and warm in this new decade. As we in the DC area stare at the snow that is still on the ground from Snowpocalypse, we dreamily turn our minds to plans of enjoying the time we hope to spend with family and friends with picnics, beach trips, and other outings after Old Man Winter finally lets go.
Personally and unfortunately, this time of year is also about remembering those who can no longer join my road-trips and adventures. I'll be taking more than a moment or two this warming season to rejoice in the memory of dear friends who lost their fights against breast cancer. Anyone who's known me for any length of time knows that I hold a particular loathing for this particular disease... this disease which has robbed me of several friends throughout the years and which will very likely claim another before the end of 2010. Every year in the USA, someone else is diagnosed with breast cancer EVERY THREE MINUTES. That's too much. I consider myself fortunate to have not lost anyone to breast cancer during 2009. However, I know that this fortune hasn't shone on everyone.
I have a fantasy. I've talked about it before, and I'll talk about it over and over until it becomes a reality. I want to, within my lifetime (not my childrens' lifetimes, but my very own), be able to raise a glass not only to the memory of lost friends, but also to the memory of the wonderful day when breast cancer joined the ranks of polio and smallpox and measles. I'd want to take that horrible list of diseases that were once considered to be death sentences with no possibility for parole -- but that now have simple vaccines and/or cures -- and add to it by at least one. I want to have my grandchildren (still many years in the future!) ask me "but why didn't they just get the shot for it?" and never have to attend a funeral for their loved ones who died from this awful disease. I want to look back on the day when a cure was announced and raise the toast "never more" and know it to be true.
In order to make these dreams a reality, more research needs to be done. In order to get more research, scientists need more funding. They need millions upon millions of dollars to find a cure. And that's where you come in, dear friends. That's where you can help. While it would be very cool to win the lottery and toss in a few million myself, that's unlikely to happen. It's also unlikely for me to record a hit song for me to donate the proceeds. I can't do it alone, and neither can you.
I will do what I have done for the past six years. I will continue to participate in the Avon Walk for Breast Cancer. I will spend my evenings and weekends getting myself prepared for this event. I will also ask you for your support.
I know that times are tight. I know that some of you are in more dire situations than I went through last fall with the loss of my job. I know that money is short. But I ask anyhow. I ask because, though times are tight for many, they are not tight for all. I ask that each of you look into yourself and figure out if you can stand to lose another loved one. If you can't, then look into your wallet and see if you can help. Please try to help. Don't help for me or for my dead friends, help for all of your loved ones who are healthy today and who you want to keep that way. Help them stay that way. Don't let another year go by and wonder what could have been done... at the end of this first year of a new decade, know in your heart that you did what you could.
Donation link: http://awbc.lhhf.org/
Historical link: http://avonlj.lhhf.org/
(Note: both links are redirects to other sites whose URLs are a lot more convoluted than I want to include in an email.)
Thank you.
--
Ralph/Sas